Ryan Gosling is like your go-to little black dress: classic yet smoking hot. Or a first edition of Little House on the Prairie: heartwarming yet enticing.

Yes, I know he’s a person with feelings and a mind, but let’s just take a look at this behind-the-scenes clip of Ryan and tell me you don’t want to drape him across your body or cozy up with him in your onesie with a cup of tea. Just tell me!

In the clip, Ryan’s talking to director Nicolas Winding Refn about some martial arts scenes in the upcoming film Only God Forgives. Refn tactfully compares violence to sex because, you know, “it’s all about the build up” and “the climax, itself.”

Ryan turns and smirks into the camera. Not once, not twice — but three times. Plus, one prolonged, intense stare.

My. Word. Watch the squee-worthy video for yourself.

Need I remind loyal Gosling fans that Ryan will be taking a little hiatus from acting after wrapping up Only God Forgives and The Place Beyond the Pines?

Let’s get our Gosling fix now before he’s gone to who knows where. He’ll probably spend his time saving women from oncoming traffic, crocheting a lovely scarf, and just wearing a skinny tie and Ray-Bans while pondering life’s greatest questions. That, or shopping at Whole Foods.

No matter. Until his return, there’s always the option of watching The Notebook about a billion times. And crying every single time.